Arielle's "It's a Purposeful Life "(preview) - Self Declarations and Breaking Boundaries

Today I really felt that lives were changing . Please do not judge a book by its cover. Teens everywhere are filled with talent, purpose, drive and compassion. Most teens just have their own unique story they need to tell and someone they can trust to hear them out without personal judgment.

I asked the students today "What is it that you really want?: a majority said "happiness"

I later explained that what stopped me from moving forward from my dreams was fear, low self-esteem, pride, arrogance and a bad attitude. Those things left me broken, confused and running in a circle.

Today I asked one student to break a boundary and she did.. As you can tell I was super excited for her and all the other students who broke boundaries. My rule is that we leave those things at the door and we only focus on positive productivity in the classroom.

Our issues will be there when we leave and we will deal with the accordingly.

My life is touched and my heart is full of gratitude. I am beyond honored to begin this movement.

Wake up your dreams young mind, you are our future, you are important you will have everything you need to be successful. Stop running in circles and move forward. Give your dreams a YES! #ariellewright #awn #youready #breakingboundries #fightingforouryouth #advocate

Unlock Your Power- Protect your Kingdom -Say No!

Hi Ladies and Gentleman,

YES OR NO!?

During the past few weeks God has me on a high spiritual journey. I have been reading, meditating, literally drowning myself with anything that involves God's divine purpose for my life. To the point that I would give myself a headache. I am chasing after God like never before.

One of the Lessons God is teaching  me is  how to say NO. It all started at work. We are currently enforcing a policy to our customers that we have not enforced strongly since we opened. This task, may seem simple to some, but it requires me to consistently turn people away on a daily basis. During that process people give me all sorts of stories and excuses on why they need to not follow the policy. However, my job is to enforce it.
I have to say no! Despite how I feel about the situation. I can not make it a habit for my emotions to dictate my response. What's right is right. Making emotional decisions in a growing company can possibly lead to a failing company. This same principal goes for ourselves!!

Are there some things that you are not saying NO about?
If so, Is is possible that because you have not exercises the power of No in your daily routine that you are jeopardizing your dreams, purpose, divine destiny, peace at mind?  


Earlier in the week I wrote  about "we have the right to be selective" That is so true! We do not have to always give to others and receive nothing in return. At some point, you have to feed yourself! At some point you have to fulfill your  destiny calling and say No to others!

 Now I am not saying don't give to people. However, I am saying don't ever sacrifice anything that is Killing your destiny.

When  walking in  your  destiny you have to walk  protected! You have to build some sort of defense, that when enemy comes, you can fight back. There will always be someone knocking on the door of your destiny to come in and change  it .  Why? Because you are walking in the higher purpose of your life and that shakes up the enemy.

 Now wait,  there is also  point where you have to embrace change within your kingdom of destiny, but the change has to line up with what you believe in.



Love you All!

-Arielle :)

You have the right to be selective!

Hey Ladies!!!

How are you? I hope all is well with you and your children :)
So, this past weekend I went to a business networking brunch. ( very nice by the way)
While speaking with a group of new friends, the conversation of "being picky"
came up.  One friend then said  " You have the right to be picky, you have the right to be selective"

Wow I thought, that is so true.

So today, I wanted to encourage all of my young mom's and dads that you do have the right to be selective.

You do not have to settle for anything less than who you are just because you started a family as a teenager.  Please don't ever feel that you have to settle for less of a life, less of a relationship, less of self love, less of anything!

You created a life, and you should celebrate your child!  You have every right to continue to go to school, go to college, start a career, buying your first home,be happy in a relationship...being everything that you want to be. You have that right!

If people are going to talk about you, so what! Let them talk..you do not have to listen, or take in anything they say that does not add value to your life...


I remember how I felt while pregnant and after pregnancy. I felt the doubt from friends and family!
 How could I possible be successful now ? I was 19 and pregnant!!? No job, No Education, and for a time no real place to live they thought...BUT GOD!

God really turned my situation around and blessed me with what I needed. I am allowing God to use my life as a showcase for his Glory. And you can do the same!

Prove everyone wrong. Those morning when you don't want to get out of bed, GET UP!! Those night when you are crying yourself to sleep..cry and then stop and rest.  You are going to make it..Just take it day by day. But, in that process, You have the right to be selective and let NO ONE take that from you! Live!!!!

Soul Assignment:

1. Are you guilty of taking less than you deserve?
2. If so, why do you think that is?

ariellewright.com coming soon!

Hello All you beautiful, talented, smart, educated , phenomenal Mommies and Daddies.
I have NOT forgotten about YOU! I have been so busy building this thing in the background. I just
wanted to give you guys a little update about what is going on!

I am super excited!! YAY! Are you ready!? ariellewright.com is coming soon!!! Yes! We are taking this blog to the next level. I am so excited and happy that I just don't know what to do. I know you do not see a lot going on the front end of the web page in the past few weeks., but there is so much going on in the background. I just wanted to stop in and say hello!!

I am going to to try my best to update you guys weekly. Pray for me, I am learning how to balance the abundance!

Please note that the website should be up God willing Early May 2016! WOW!!! YES! I have photo shoots going on, tons of new material and just a wonderful experience that is about to go down!

So Hold On Tight. From One Young Mom to Another!!

-Arielle

Soul Assignment:

1. How excited are you for ariellewright.com?
2. What are somethings that you would like to see on the site?

I'ts all in your response. - How to speak "Mommy"

Hi Ladies and also Gentlemen!

How are you? I hope all is well with each of you. 

Does anyone have an issue with screaming at your kids?  I do! Sometimes I catch myself screaming at my child in a level that I find draining for me and unresponsive to her. The response I get from my daughter is a blank stare! She freezes. She does not know what to do when I am screaming at her to do something. I usually begin to scream when I am frustrated, not necessarily at her, but at the situation.

 So I begin to ask myself..why am I screaming? I don't usually scream at adults during my day, so why is it so easy for me to scream at my child? 

It's Simple, she will not scream back at me! 

It's all a about how I am  communicating with my child, or maybe how I am NOT communicating with her at a level that she can comprehend.  Most of the people I speak to daily are adults, therefor that is what I am used to ..that is the only language I speak "Adult" lol.. But now, I have to learn to speak "Mommy" .

Wait, you mean to tell me that there is  a "Mommy Language"!? Wow, 

 So, How do I begin to speak "Mommy!?" First thing , Be yourself!

 is to speak to them just like you would speak to a friend you love. ( Not to say that you should be speaking about a private matter with your child that you would with your friend. There is a difference between adult conversation and conversation that is more suitable for children) ( Remember the term " stay out of grown folk business" It's almost the same, you want to make sure you filter what is going into a child's ears) But Being  yourself around your child is the best thing you can do. Be 100% YOU!

A better you makes a better parent!

Soul Assignment: 

Do you tend to yell at your child? 

If not, please share if you have any challenges in parenthood

What is your response to those challenges?

If you do yell, What is usually the challenge? 

Can you identify all the emotions you are feeling in your response?

My answer:  I am learning that I do not like to repeat  a task that I already completed. Such as cleaning! Nothing is more frustrating to me than walking in your home after a long day at work, to a pile of laundry still not done, and toys all over the place. I mean who likes a mess? So in my head, I want to get to cleaning, however, my daughter wants to come home and climb on the couches, turn on the TV super loud. Usually wants to pull out even more toys onto the floor and run around the house with them. I am literally putting toys away and she is putting them back onto the floor. My response, I yell or break down!

Another one, I concentrate and work in a zone. If someone needs something from me while I am working..It makes me angry. I do not like to be interrupted! 

My emotions during those times  are Anger and Frustration, I ultimately feel like I am failing. 

I am a natural over achiever, so when an over achiever is faced with failure. That is literally the opposite of who they are. It can be a big  challenge! 

So, What do you do? 

"Revisit your definition of failure and success" - More to come! 

Love you always,

Arielle Wright :)

What Stage Are You In?

Hello All, 

Being a young mom or dad is a lot of work! Lot's things going on with your life, and also trying to be the best parent you can be to your little one's life as well.  

As mentioned in a previous post, my biggest struggle is bonding with my child. I am an over thinker for sure, and maybe I actually do enough bonding and I am simply being overly dramatic. However because of my struggle I began to give myself the benefit of the doubt and question my issues with bonding. I came up with an analysis that like ourselves, children change over time. Childhood development grows at constant speed. A child goes through the stages of a baby, toddler, preschooler and a big kid. During this time a lot is going on with them, and a lot is going on with us. 

Like a lot of people I tend to have a hard time with transitions. (In the terms that I am really focused on something) I found myself mastering what it was like to be a mother of an infant. I got use to the requirements, my baby sleeps at this time, she eats at this time, and I change her at this time. I struggled at first, but mastered the routine. Once I mastered the routine, out came the toddler years, wooh! What a change. Not only in my baby, but in myself! I am no longer a mother of a baby, I am now a mother of a toddler, and who am I now? I am confronted with things that require me to grow as a person. Such as chasing after a toddler, making sure they are not eating something totally inappropriate, planning activities, reacting to tantrums...list goes on. I don't want to ramble but it does go to show you that your children are not going to stay the same. They are growing! And so are you. My encouragement to you, is enjoy the process, embrace the moment. Take a second and reflect on yourself. It is okay if you are not sure what to do. We can learn together and help each other through things. The point of from one young mom to another is to embrace each other in the utmost support! You are not alone! 

Soul Assignment: 

What stage are your child currently in? 

How is it different from the previous stage? 

How are you adjusting?
What do you find the most challenging at this point? 

Love you as always!

-Arielle :)

2016 Blessing

I just want to end the year with a post that encourages you to change your mind set for 2016.
I recently meditated on  the quote by Marianne Williamson:
                                                                  
                                                                 "Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate.

Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure.

It is our light not our darkness that most frightens us.

We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous,

talented and fabulous?

Actually, who are you not to be?

We were born to make manifest the glory of

God that is within us.

It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone.

we unconsciously give other people

permission to do the same.

As we are liberated from our own fear,

Our presence automatically liberates others.

You are a child of God.

Your playing small does not serve the world.

There's nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other

people won't feel insecure around you.

And as we let our own light shine",

My loves, having a baby is a precious gift and you were chosen! Your life has just begun, and has not ended. you will find all the love and joy you need in your process of reflecting on the love of God and how he will lead you through each day. You are not forgotten about, you are worth more than a thousand rubies. You are so brilliant, smart and you will be extremely successful! It is your time! Shine!

Soul Assignment: 

Look in the mirror and say " I love you"  

-Arielle